Friday June 20

J went to camp this morning. It starts at 9am. I woke up at 8:45. Luckily my neighbor was able to take the boys. I picked them up. So that worked.

I finished the curtains for our room today. I also cut the curtains in the living room. DH has asked me to do that for a long time. I finally got around to it today. I am missing a rod to hang the curtains in our bedroom. It is just a tension rod that cost about a dollar, it is just the hassle of getting it. I wanted it to be done with dh got home and now it will not be. S has to mow, and I don't want her to do that when I am gone. I like the small curtains I made for over the bed, but the still let some light in. I guess it is better than before. The big curtains are ok. I am not sure that any curtains would be what I want. They go ok with the valances already up, but I think that they need to be higher. I don't want to move them and make more holes in the wall, so it will have to do. Maybe I will post a picture when I get the rod up.

A invited a friend over. The friend said she could not spend the night, but that A could come over to her house. I am not sure why that is. The friend has a babysitter, so wouldn't make more since to have her over here. Then A calls and asks if the babysitter can take them to another friends house. They are going to stay there until after dinner. WHAT?? Why is she going to that friends house until after dinner but she can not come over here. Her first reason was that her brother had a baseball game that she had to go to. The friend that they all went to now, she has 2 mom's. I don't really know what to do with that. It is not fair to the little girl to not allow A to play, but it has not worked to have her over here. Abbey does not get what it means that she has two moms. She thinks that the moms just adopted her together and nothing else. Weird.

When I went to get the boys today, my mouth really started hurting. I had trouble until a little while ago. We had to go to Target because my social butterfly S is going to a birthday party tonight. We got the girl a jewerly/makeup box with some stuff in it. I also got a few other things. We went to eat lunch there. I was going to have some soup, but they ran out of the only kind I could eat, so I had to wait until I got home to eat. The kids got hot dogs and such.

S asked if sometime next week if she could go to the movies with a friend. She was talking to the neighbor about it and the neighbor said she would take her. I never said yes or no to S, so it was sort of irritating that she asked the neighbor. But anyway, the neighbor and I were talking about it with A. A said that S was going with a guy friend of hers. It is the guy that is the minister's son of the new church we are trying. I guess a group of kids were going. I told her that she was not able to go now. If that was what she wanted to do then she needed to come right out and ask, but not sneak around. She asked me if I would have said yes or no. I told her that she did not give me the chance to have all of the information and that when she is sneaking around it makes me think that something is up. So next time she needs to be straight forward with all of the information. The thing I was thinking is that 14 is too young to start dating. I know because I was dating around that same age, and I was too young. I only dated one guy throughout High School. That is too long for one date. At least S's friend is a minister's son. Maybe that will be good for her.

Both of the boys are sleeping, so I should go do something. Not sure what. Maybe just watch TV and sit for while.